At 37 life was good, my four kids were all doing well, years of hard work had paid off and I finally had my dream job, I was possibly in the best shape of my life physically I thought but I was so tired there were times I felt as if I might not make it through the day. I went to the doctor and found out I was pregnant. How could I have not known? But on the other hand I had been diagnosed 10 months prior with severe endometriosis and I was told that getting pregnant again would be impossible.
Fast forward fifteen months later Gracie was 7 months and I was terribly ill. My dream job had evolved into me being allowed to work from home full time. I could sit at my desk and work but that was pretty much it some days as the pain was tremendous. I was lethargic, gaining weight and terribly unhappy. I went back to the doctor who had delivered my baby and he said my uterus was enlarged and had me come back in a few weeks. His treatment was birth control pills. I went back in a few weeks and as I had guessed it was only worse. This went on for almost a year. One day I was in so much pain I could not stop crying and I called the phone number of a gynecologist from the my insurance book. As it turned out it was the best decision I had made in a long time, this man was my angel. After the examination and a long consultation the doctor said considering my history and the newfound evidence of Adenomyosis he would recommend a hysterectomy. He asked me to read some material and watch a film. I did all of this and more. I read absolutely everything I could get my hands on. The information out there about women who had this procedure was scary to say the least! Nice normal women pre-op told stories of mood swings that could literally drive families apart, hot flashes, weight gain, night sweats, total loss of desire for intimacy, the information was not positive. In spite of it all I decided to proceed with the surgery.
In all of my research I stumbled across a soy company owned by a doctor who had developed products for his mom to improve her quality of life. She was suffering from symptoms related to menopause. This young doctor, a genius to say the least accomplished what he set out to do and so much more. His name is Dr. Tabor and his company is Revival Soy. I ordered some of the soy shakes that contain 20 grams of soy protein and 160 milligrams of soy antioxidants which is six times the amount you get from drinking only one cup of regular soy milk. I started drinking one to two shakes a day one month prior to my surgery. The surgery itself was a Godsend as it alleviated every ounce of pain I had and within 24 hours I had a new lease on life. I was also armed with the knowledge that adding the proper amount of soy to your diet with moderate exercise could totally make non-existent such symptoms as night sweats, insomnia and hot flashes. I was feeling so good I foolishly thought that possibly I was someone who would not be affected with such symptoms anyway. With this thought hovering in the back of my mind I stopped paying attention to exercise and I stopped consuming the soy shakes. I was using a HRT patch and that was it. The reality of menopause hit me like I had been struck by lightening. The slightest thing would ignite this burning fire deep within like a smoldering volcano ready to erupt through the top of my head, hot flashes became more frequent, sleepless nights were miserable and there were times I felt like I might crawl out of my skin. This was my wake-up call. I immediately re-evaluated what I was doing, added Revival Soy back to my diet and resumed walking no less than three times a week.
I also made a personal decision to stop using HRT over a year ago. At the age of 44, with the approval of my GYN who by the way is very pro-HRT has conceded that I am so incredibly healthy he believes I am fine HRT-free but I will as he advised follow up with bone density and colon screening.
I would like to note other benefits of Revival Soy are weight loss, beautiful skin, hair, nails and exercise/workout support.
Asian women were the attention grabbers of doctors because only 9% of those living in Asia experienced hot flashes and other menopausal symptoms compared to Western women who have an 80%-90% rate. The obvious difference was a diet rich in soy.